Connor Beaton (men’s coach, porn addict mentor) helps men face their shadows. The US author and podcaster has coached thousands of men on “how to be good at being men”. The masculinity crisis is a persistent theme here on Wild (and in the world) and so I am having these chats to better understand it and how it impacts all of us.
I asked Connor to join us to chat about porn – what it’s doing to men, what is not being satisfied and how it’s affecting relationships. We also cover why boys flock to Andrew Tate, what women really mean when they say they want a man to be vulnerable and what happens in relationships when women earn more than the bloke.
If there are any specific angles or experts on men and masculinity you’d like covered here, do let me know over in my Substack comments.
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You can follow Connor on Instagram and listen to his podcast Man Talks
Get hold of his book Man Talks: A Practical Guide to Face Your Darkness, End Self Sabotage and Find Freedom
Learn more via his website
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