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"My mission in putting the single at heart on the map is to rewrite what it means to be single. Single life, to those of us who are single at heart, is a joyful place, a place to learn and grow. It is a big-hearted, expansive, meaningful life full of possibilities . . . intimacy, to us, is personal; in that domain as in all others, we follow our hearts rather than the cultural rulebooks. We chart our own life courses, with meaningfulness, psychological richness, and authenticity as our guide." —Dr. Bella DePaulo, author of Single at Heart: The Power, Freedom, and Heart-Filling Joy of Single Life
Joining me on the podcast today is a guest who has courageously chosen to share that she thoroughly and unapologetically savors living a single life. The leading expert on single living, Dr. Bella DePaulo dispels the myths that pervade modern-day (and historic) cultures around the world when it comes to being single by looking at the research that is often cherry-picked and misleading as it speaks to in what type of relationship status one finds the most happiness. But most importantly, in her new book that was just released yesterday December 5th (2023), Single at Heart: The Power, Freedom, and Heart-Filling Joy of Single Life, she focuses on an abundance of findings that reveal the many benefits of living single. From improved health and deeper life satisfaction as we age.
Thankfully, so much of what is portrayed in media - films, books, television, pretty much everywhere - is not an accurate depiction of where and how happiness is found. By no means is Single at Heart an anti-marriage or anti-couple book, but rather a book that reveals that those of us who have chosen to be single, who find it far more fulfilling than being in a traditional couple, need only trust our inner compass to continue to choose the life that brings us fulfillment. As she points out, the world would be far more peaceful and content if we would trust what we know to be true of ourselves - those who wish to be in a couple would find people who truly wanted to be in a couple, and those who savored their single life would not feel forced to choose a life that was not nourishing.
Tune in to today's conversation where we will talk about the priority and value of freedom as well as benefits of solitude for the Single at Heart, and also speak to how those who are widows/widowers, as well as divorcees, can step into a new chapter of revelation about where and how joy can be cultivated. Dr. DePaulo discusses the importance of nurturing The Ones rather than just The One and reminds us that courageously saying we love our single life is what is needed to change the view that the culture errantly holds on to.
304: Artists in Residence writer and illustrator Melissa Wyse and Kate Lewis
303: 33 Ways to Live Your Fullest Life, as taught by Norma Kamali
302: 21 Lessons Learned in my 42nd Year
301: The Courage to Live Fully & Deeply: 7 Ideas to Put into Practice for a Life of True Contentment
300: Plat du Jour - French Dinners Made Easy w/Susan Herrmann Loomis
299: How to Live a Life with Less Stress & Why It's Vital for Good Health
298: 28 Ways to Simplify Your Entire Life
297: 10 Ideas for Making the Most of "Between the Years"
296: The Necessity of Personal Privacy: A Delicate & Important Dance
295: The Gift of Discontentment (yep, that's no typo)
294: How to be the Director of Your Life: 6 Key Components
293: Choose a Life You Love Living Each Day (yes, it is possible)
292: 7 Truths About Experiencing Happiness
291: 6 Ways To Dance with Life (and Have An Amazing Experience)
290: 10 Life Choices to Simplify & Welcome a Calm & Contented Everyday Life
289: Anne Willan Talks About Women in the Kitchen
288: Cultivating a New Normal
287: 5 Things to Do to Build Healthy Relationships and 4 Things to Let Go
286: How to Let Go of Comparison? Heal Thyself
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