0149 Female Led Relationships: Peg-tember, Spanking, and the Hodgepodge of FLR Life

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We're kicking off Peg-tember with a bang—and a paddle. This re-released episode dives into the often misunderstood world of pegging and spanking in female-led relationships, right in time for Labor Day weekend (again). MY subbie and I unpack feedback from TikTok, share personal anecdotes from their FLR journey, and tackle the misconceptions around mental health, dominance, and kink dynamics with humor, heart, and clarity. 

This is your reminder that pleasure, power, and partnership can all coexist in healthy, grounded ways—even in a camper.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

• The TikTok backlash that inspired this conversation
• Pegging basics, myths, and practical tips from a Facebook post Krystine couldn’t stop thinking about
• Why spanking and dominance aren't always about punishment
• Mental health, kink, and the very real emotional dynamics of FLR
• Reclaiming control and respect through open, ongoing communication

Why It Matters:
Whether you're just curious about FLR or you're already living it, this episode gets real about what happens after the fantasy. It’s not all whips and chains—sometimes it’s body language, poop logistics, safe words, and deep emotional connection. And sometimes? It’s just a hodgepodge.

Links & Extras:
Worksheet for FLR Communication & Consent (Patreon Exclusive)
Want more on pegging? Check out the companion post for Peg-tember on Patreon

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