How to Have Great Sex! With Vanessa + Xander Marin

2023-06-01

Sex therapist Vanessa Marin and her husband, Xander join PRETTYSMART to discuss their mission to help people have more (and better!) sex. They share: What made them decide to start working together and helping others improve their sex lives. What is off limits for them when it comes to talking about sex publicly. Their philosophy on why sex is so important in relationships. What it really means to have great sex. Why we are all afraid to talk about sex. How sex changes as we age. ...

Sex therapist Vanessa Marin and her husband, Xander join PRETTYSMART to discuss their mission to help people have more (and better!) sex. They share:

What made them decide to start working together and helping others improve their sex lives.
What is off limits for them when it comes to talking about sex publicly.
Their philosophy on why sex is so important in relationships.
What it really means to have great sex.
Why we are all afraid to talk about sex.
How sex changes as we age.
The two different sex drive types and how they impact our sex lives.
Ways to open up to your partner about sex (and prompts to help you feel more comfortable doing so!)
How to get your partner to initiate more.
If it's normal to squirt or not during sex.
How to bring new relationship energy back to your sex life.
What to do if you've been faking your orgasms.
How to communicate any sexual fantasies you might have.
The impact the porn industry has had on our sex lives and how we all think about sex.
Why you should reframe the way you think about the number of sexual partners you've had.