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Today, let’s welcome back dating coach Matthew Hussey. Matthew is also a YouTube personality and writer known for offering advice on dating, love, and relationships to both men and women through his online content, seminars, and his book "Get The Guy." His approach typically combines practical advice, motivational coaching, and a bit of psychology to help individuals understand what they want from a relationship and how to get it.
Matthew shares his insights on the complexities of love, self-discovery, and the importance of honest communication. He emphasizes on the significance of creating a peaceful relationship, distinguishing it from a boring one, and the value of embracing vulnerabilities to foster deeper connections. Matthew's reflections on his own experiences, coupled with his expertise, provide a comprehensive guide on navigating the challenges of modern dating, building meaningful relationships, and cultivating self-awareness.
In this interview, you'll learn:
How to cultivate peaceful relationships without boredom
How to deepen connections through vulnerability
How to navigate modern dating with confidence
How to enhance relationships with effective communication
How to enrich love life through self-awareness
Whether you're single, dating, or in a relationship, this episode offers valuable lessons on love, resilience, and the transformative power of embracing your true self.
With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty
What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro
04:20 Where Does Your Idea of Love Come From?
10:34 What Differentiates a Peaceful to a Boring Relationship?
19:35 What Are Your Must-Haves in a Relationship?
31:47 Tactics Are Different From Relationship Standards
39:59 Egoic Standards Versus Setting Standards for Happiness
51:20 Practice Having Real and Difficult Conversations
01:04:48 The Importance of Communicating Your Thoughts and Feelings
01:08:25 Is Your Partner the Right One for You?
01:15:05 Dealing with the Different Phases of Heartbreak
01:26:31 What’s Next for Matthew?
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