Roy was married 25 years with 5 kids. And they had a good marriage.
They love the Lord and seek to serve Him with all.
Intimacy was tough though.
And every time he brought it up, she would get defensive, or feel like she wasn't good enough, or like he'll never be satisfied.
Anyone else feel that way?
He had heard about Masculinity Reclaimed for a couple of years and finally decided it was time.
He kept hitting a wall.
And if you're in that place, I want you to know...
It's legitimate that issues around intimacy hurt.
They hurt deeply.
But Roy got to a place where trying to change her wasn't working.
And so, he decided it was time to look at himself.
He knew going into the program if he let his wife know, in the beginning, she would put many, many more walls up...
So, he decided to go forward without her knowing. Because, as he said, this was a coaching program FOR HIM.
He had to talk to someone.
It was either therapy or a coaching program.
(And he said she doesn't really like therapy either).
Anyway... that's where things started.
But, in 12 weeks, God did something amazing.
If you're a man looking/grasping for hope and/or you want the tools for changing your marriage, I invite you to listen.
If you're a woman who will listen with a curious heart to find out how men really feel about intimacy, I invite you to listen.
Love & Blessings,
Belah
PS - Would you like to work on your side of your marriage? I invite you to sign up for a free Clarity Call here at delightyourmarriage.com/cc.
PPS - How healthy is your marriage, really? Take the free Marital Health Assessment here! delightyourmarriage.com/health
Quote from a Masculinity Reclaimed Graduate:
"I've learned so much, your course helped me figure out so many things I've been struggling with in my life and I've really been able to make sense of pain and emotions that I haven't figured out until now.
There are many more great things that have come from doing your course!"
290-Repulsed by His Touch 17 Years & Now Craves It. Testimonial with Dana
289-Failure & Embarrassment to Growth & Godliness
288-Listen for Intimacy
287-Steadying the Waves of Marriage
286-Change Your Motivations
285-Courage to Change
284-Discipline for Intimacy
A prayer for you
283-How to Love No Matter What
Good Friday Reflection & Prayer
282-Brink of Divorce, Now in Love. Testimonials with Hope & Norm
281-Sexless 35 Years, Now Lovemaking Every Week! And She Didn’t Know. Testimonial with Lyle
280-Sex Created Constant Tension and It Now Creates Desire. Kyle & Ali's Testimonial.
279-Suffering Over a Decade, Until One Choice at 3am & Now She Loves Intimacy. Glen & Anne's Testimonial
278-Requirement for Your Marriage Miracle
277-Her Disinterest Transformed to Desire, When HE Changed. Testimonial with Jeremiah.
276-Gents, When You Want It But She Doesn't
275-Wives, Organize Your Lives for Passion
274-For 28 years It Was a Duty...Then a Miracle. Interview with Darcy
273-New Year, Stronger Vision
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