“Budgets Don’t Work” — What Changed Their Financial Mindset After 35 Years of Marriage | 450

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Budget besties, today’s episode is such a gem. We’re sitting down with our clients (and friends) Eric and Carol — a couple who came into coaching feeling unsure, a little overwhelmed, and definitely not sold on the whole budgeting thing.

Fast forward to now? They’ve got multiple accounts working for them, a business budget that finally makes sense, and they’re making mindful money moves without the stress. 👏

We talk about what it was like navigating finances as empty nesters, the reality of running a business while trying to keep personal money straight, and what happens when you actually see how much life costs. (Spoiler: it’s eye-opening in the best way.)

Also, Carol has some wise words about learning how to say, “It’s not in the budget this week,” without guilt — and we are 100% here for that kind of power.

In this episode:

• Why tracking everything wasn’t working — and what finally did

• How Eric went from budget-skeptic to spreadsheet king 💻

• Letting go of shame around money and stepping into control

• What it looks like to separate business and personal money (for real this time)

• Setting up multiple bank accounts without losing your mind — or your debit card

• The “tough love” moment that changed everything

• Teaching their grown kids about money (even the spicy one)

• How budgeting helped them stop relying on debt and start trusting their bank account

This is one of those conversations that reminds us it’s never too late to shift your money mindset. Budgeting isn’t about being perfect — it’s about being present, proactive, and peaceful when it comes to your money.

Whether you’re a business owner, a parent, or someone who’s always felt like the numbers just don’t add up — this one’s for you. ❤️

— Shana & Vanessa

🛠️ Mentioned in this episode:

🎲 Cashflow Board GameThe game Eric and Carol’s son bought that teaches the concept of financial independence in a super hands-on, realistic way. It’s like Monopoly — but make it real life.👉 Link to Cashflow on Amazon

🎥 Eric’s Video Production BusinessEric runs a video production company and works with clients to create beautiful, impactful content. If you're looking for a pro with decades of experience behind the camera, check him out!👉 Link to Eric’s business website

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