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Your Teen WANTS You To Connect with Them
This might come as a shock to you, but your teen WANTS you to connect with them.
I know what you might be thinking, "Not MY teen. They want nothing to do with me."
I know, it probably seems that way, but I promise you, your teen wants connection.
Your teen wants to belong.
They want to be praised and appreciated.
The want the safety that comes with unconditional love, acceptance, and belonging.
Wanting to belong is a fundamental human need and desire.
When this need isn't met, teens will desperately search for it.
Your teen might not be willing to admit it, but secretly they WANT connection with YOU!
Your Teen Wants YOU To Connect with Them
Now, here's the tricky part.
Your teen wants YOU to connect with them.
Stop waiting for them to open up and start connecting with you, they want you to initiate the connection.
This is powerful knowledge.
Knowing that Your teen WANTS connection, and knowing that they want YOU to connect with them gives you incredible power.
Whether or not it's true is less important than simply believing and trusting that it is true.
Think about it.
The thought, "My teen wants nothing to do with me."
How does that feel for you?
It might feel "true," but it probably feels sad and disheartening.
Now think about this instead, "My teen wants ME to connect with them?"
How does that feel?
For me, it's hopeful and empowering.
It helps me know that what I'm doing as a dad, even though it's sometimes hard, is exactly what my teens secretly want.
Build Values Based Connections with Your Teen
One of the things that I am fighting against in the world is over-complication or parenting.
We have a natural tendency to overly complicate things, especially parenting.
So, here are some simple principles to help you build values based connections with your teens.
When you join my membership in 2023, you'll get access to my full values trainings, which are AMAZING!
But for now, I promise you this is enough to get you started.
Take the free Parent Trap quiz
If you have a teen you should take this Parent Trap Quiz .
It will help you uncover specific parenting patterns that might be hindering your relationship with your teen.
By identifying your Parent Trap, you gain the tools to have better communication, resolve conflicts, and build greater confidence in your parenting decisions.
This self-awareness ultimately strengthens your relationship with your teen, which leads to a more open and harmonious connection.
This quiz is your gateway to becoming the parent of your dreams and paving the way for a happier and healthier family life.
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