*Encore presentation from January 2018*
Join co-hosts Danielle and Garrett J White with Week Two of the Date Your Wife Podcast, in which they share two VERY different views of how they were raised with money (or without) and how that has affected their relationship as a married couple.
In This Week’s Podcast….MONEY Point #1: Having Expensive Tastes In Which Money Matters Money causes a ton of chaos within marriage, which will make or break the relationship, forcing you to deal with your spouse on a whole new level.
What kind of background were you raised in that has effected the way in which you approach your outlook on money within marriage?
Point #2: The War of Spending Money Danielle spent money because she wanted to experience life, but for Garrett, money was about spending money on business, which he still struggles with, as they throw each other under the bus in how they spend money.
If you could throw your spouse under the bus, what do you think they struggle with when it comes to spending money?
Point #3: ATMs and Porn Stars Garrett felt like the only way he had value was if he made money, and therefore when he makes money Danielle should put out for sex any time he wants.What does being a Producer do to bring out the sexual dynamic within marriage?
Point #4: Learning from What Didn’t Work: The Cancun Contract With the Cancun Contract, it was 3 for 3: 3 Gifts for 3 sex sessions which led to feeling more like they were purchasing prostitution in an attempt to give their marriage a shot at what would work for them based off of their own love languages for 3 weeks, learning that using money as a manipulator didn’t work but ended to bigger breakthroughs later on.Where can you invest in your spouse with no strings attached, investing in experiences with your spouse and family? Where do you still need to give yourself permission to receive without guilt?
Point #5: I Want You To Want To Hold yourself to a higher standard in order to push your spouse to become more, believing in them more than they believe in themselves.How can a woman powerfully support and invest emotionally in her husband to encourage him to become a bigger producer?
Date Night Topic:
What improvements can be made in regards to the topic of money?
Quote of the Week:
“I was raised to feel that you could get whatever you wanted in life if you are willing to work, but no one was going to save you. I didn’t know that I could want anything more than what I had. I learned that I needed to demonstrate in my marriage that my wife is worth spending money on and worth the investment.”
—Garrett J White
“If you want to be treated like a Queen, you’ve got to treat your man like a King. Women need to own their part and let go of the guilt when your husband invests in you. Stop getting stuck in the stories that your man isn’t fulfilling you, and realize that you may not be fulfilling his needs. If he’s putting in effort, take the gifts he’s giving you and see how it feels to then harmonize in fulfilling his needs.”
—Danielle White
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The Accelerator VS the Refiner | Date Your Wife | EP 124
Beauty and The Beast | Date Your Wife | EP 123
The Next Chapter | Date Your Wife | EP 122
Agent Provocateur | Date Your Wife | EP 121
The Island of Pure Fire | Date Your Wife | EP 120
Stop Dancing On The F*cking Line | Date Your Wife | EP 119
Baby, You've Always Been Good | Date Your Wife | Ep 118
Sex, Passion & Communication | Date Your Wife | EP 117
You Can Look Healthy But Not Be Healthy | Date Your Wife | EP 116
Caught In A Web of Lies | Date Your Wife | EP 115
Become A Little Less Sh*tty | Date Your Wife | EP 114
Tequila, Tithing, & Framing Money Like You Want to Get Laid | Date Your Wife | EP 113
Sex With the Lights On | Date Your Wife | EP 112
The 5 Stages of Divorce | Date Your Wife | EP 111
Processing Guilt | Date Your Wife | Ep 110
Date Night | Date Your Wife | EP 109
Below the Surface | Date Your Wife | Ep 108
The Divine Divorce | Date Your Wife | EP 107
Toleration & Standards | Date Your Wife | EP 106
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