Sometimes, no matter how turned on we get with a partner, we simply won’t cum. It’s frustrating as hell for us guys, and it can be insulting for our partners. “Am I not hot enough, or turning you on enough?” are some thoughts that might be rolling around in his/her head.
The truth is, it shouldn’t be insulting. Because when we can’t orgasm, it’s rarely our partner. 95% of the time, it’s our shit that’s preventing us from either knowing our own arousal or communicating our needs or dealing with our sexual shame. This goes for both women and men.
Today's episode is a conversation between me and a past client and friend who's dealt with not being able to ejaculate during sex. I offer him a few solutions. Some may resonate well with you, and others may not. It's a subjective thing, orgasm. If you want some personalized, more in depth help, you can reach me at ryan@modernsextalks.com for a free 20min consult.
EP065: Decoding Your Kink
EP064: Losing My Virginity
EP063: Just the Tip Tuesday - Sexy Vulnerability
EP062: Sex, Sin and Zen
EP061: Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse
EP060: How to be More Attractive
EP059: Just the Tip Tuesday - Sexual Art Photography
EP058: Just the Tip Tuesday - Attitude and Great Sex
EP057: Interview with a Sacred Sex Worker
EP056: Why We Need More Sluts
EP055: Just the Tip Tuesdays - Co-c-kfidence
EP054: Why "Just Be Yourself" is Terrible Advice
EP053: Just the Tip Tuesday - Myths of Male Emotion
EP052: 1 Exercise to Overcome Shame
EP051: Just the Tip Tuesday - Attract the Right Partner (for men)
EP050: 11 Types of Female Orgasms
EP049: My Stint with No Sex, No Dating
EP048: Just the Tip Tuesday - Erotic Massage
EP047: Male Ego, a brief explanation
EP046: Just the Tip Tuesday - Status and Dating
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