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Kids & Family:Parenting
In this episode, Greg and Rachel Denning answer this question:
"Wondering if you have advice for someone who has been trying to pour everything into life/marriage to make it extraordinary but the spouse is not showing up and 'being the man' as Greg has defined. If they try, they relapse or it seems like the bare minimum is done. It has been years of this and it feels like it’s holding us back from an extraordinary life. Wondering your thoughts on handling situations like that when it feels like you have tried everything and given it time."
The truth is an extraordinary marriage requires work. But Greg and Rachel Denning tackle the all too common dilemma: what to do when one spouse is giving their all to make their marriage extraordinary, but the other isn't stepping up.
They delve into the essence of a thriving marriage, emphasizing the power of daily choices and the need for 'extraordinary' effort (and why 'good' is not good enough).
Greg and Rachel stress the importance of utilizing the right tools (in the right way) even if you've 'tried everything' -- and persisting through challenges.
They explain the issue of 'collusion' and destructive, self-sabotaging patterns in relationships and explain how to break free from them.
Rachel highlights the significance of personal accountability and understanding the differences between men and women -- men need respect and women need to feel cherished -- for fostering a healthy partnership.
They urge spouses to 'bring the tide' and become agents of change in their relationships through self-improvement, emphasizing the effect 'bringing the tide' can have on spouses.
Offering practical advice, the Dennings present a roadmap for enhancing marriages even if you're the 'only one' -- with a warning against heeding misguided counsel (like Ruby Franke).
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#184 Helping Children to Manage Their Emotions (so They Can Live Happier Lives)
#183 Seeing BEYOND Roe Vs. Wade, Gun Control, & Other 'Surface Tensions'
#182 How to Stop Yelling At Your Kids (Because You're Traumatizing Them)
#181 Chores as Child Abuse?! Responses to This & Other Surprising Comments
#180 This is What's Contributing to All Your Parenting Problems -- And Will Solve Them When Addressed
#179 Travel More? Or Prepare for the Worst? Finding the Middle-Ground Between Risk-Taking and Being Safe & Prepared
#178 We Know It's Hard But DO WHAT MUST BE DONE! The Obstacle IS the Way
#177 How Personality Affects Your Marriage & Parenting; Analyzing (& Laughing About) Our Big 5 Personality Test Scores
#176 How Frustration, Guilt, & Discontent Guide You to Your Best Self -- Don't Assuage the Pain or 'Accept What Is'. This is Your Soul Calling!
#175 Q&A Sneaky Teens, Forbidden Apps, Pornography, Masturbation, Device Usage, Teen Sex and More! Oh My.
#174 Marriage Q&A: Intellectual Conversations, Over-Helping, & Why This Famous Sexpert is WRONG
#173 Beauty, Art, Changing World Order, & Jordan Peterson Live
#172 The Foundations for Magic & Serendipity -- Our Portugal Trip Report
#171 Force Your Kids to Finish? Or Let Them Quit? Our Surprising Answer
#170 How to Wake Up and Overcome Sleep Depression/Inertia -- Better Mornings Equals a Better Life
#169 How to Make the Mundane Parts of Day-to-Day Life More Meaningful
#168 What to Do When People Oppose Your Lifestyle Choices
#167 How to Get Your Spouse on Board -- Plus Why Your Marriage Needs a 'Breaking Point'
#166 The Size of Your Dreams MUST Exceed Your Current Capacity to Achieve Them
#165 Exposing Your Kids to the Dark Side -- WHY and HOW
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