When Submission Has Been Used to Silence You

Today's Scripture: Ephesians 5:21–33
**Today's devotional is in response to listener requests.**
In this episode, Dr. Alison Cook reflects on the often misunderstood language of submission. She explores the heart of Paul’s teaching through the lens of Jesus: mutual reverence, self-giving love, and power expressed through care—not control. We explore:
*What submission is not
*Why Ephesians 5 begins with mutual submission and must be read through the way of Jesus
*How religious language can sometimes reinforce fear, control, or self-abandonment
*Why real love creates space for both people to become more whole, honest, and free
*What mutuality looks like in relationships marked by dignity, accountability, and truth
Go Deeper:
Episode 56: Am I really Supposed to Die to Myself?
Episode 55: Am I Supposed to Distrust Myself?
Episode 5: What is Codependency and Why Does it Matter?
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