327: Is It Time to Set a Boundary? My Favorite Tool to Express Boundaries in a Loving Way

How do you know when it’s time to set a boundary—and how can you express it in a way that’s both loving and clear? In this episode, discover the signs that a boundary is needed, why boundaries are part of God’s created order, and the three qualities that make a boundary truly healthy. 

You’ll also learn Alicia’s favorite tool for expressing boundaries, the “Boundary Sandwich”, a simple framework that helps you set limits with kindness, clarity, and confidence. 

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN: 

[00:00] How do you know when it’s time to set a boundary? 

[02:00] What emotional signs point to the need for limits? 

[04:00] Why are boundaries part of God’s design for creation? 

[05:00] What makes a boundary healthy, clear, and kind? 

[07:00] How can consistency build confidence in boundary setting? 

[08:00] What biblical examples show boundaries in action? 

[11:00] When should you express a boundary out loud vs. keep it between you and God? 

[12:00] What is the “Boundary Sandwich” and how does it work? 

[14:00] Real-life examples of the Boundary Sandwich in family, friendship, and church settings 

 

RESOURCES: 

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RELATED EPISODES: 

Episode 223: “People Pleasers, You Don’t Need to Apologize for Your Decisions” 

Episode 233: Restore Your Relationships: Create Guilt-Free Boundaries for Less Family + Friendship Drama 

Episode 326: A People Pleaser’s Guide to Setting Boundaries (When You’re Afraid to Offend Others) 

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