Remember that gut-punch moment when everything you thought you knew about yourself was turned on its head? That's where Kirsty Loehr found herself at 16, blindsided by the realisation that her sexuality wasn't what she'd always assumed...
In this episode, meet Kirsty, author of "A Short History of Queer Women," and hear her journey of self-discovery against the backdrop of a Manchester council estate. This episode peels back the layers of what it means to come to terms with one's queer identity, pre-social media whirlwind and without a blueprint for what lies ahead.
With humor and heart, Kirsty recounts the early clues of her attraction to women—yes, including that trademark lumberjack shirt—and the role her incredible mother played in fostering a space where being gay was never an issue. From the rough-and-tumble of adolescence to the profound impact of a supportive family, our conversation is a testament to the courage it takes to embrace who you are.
As we explore the vibrant tapestry of queer women's experiences, and perhaps you'll see a bit of your own story reflected in Kirsty’s.
Buy Kirsty's book here, or wherever you get your books.
Presented by Emma Goswell
Produced by Sam Walker
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Brad: For more than 30 years I convinced myself "I can't be gay. I will change someday"
EJ: I’ve had quite the internal war about how I identify. I don’t want to use the labels that society gives us!
Andrew: I told myself that being bisexual was just a phase. It was not!
Grady: For forty years, I prayed for God to "fix me" Then I realised there was nothing to fix.
Lucy Lou: The moment I put that dress on, I thought "I'm here!"
Day: It took me all night to garner the courage but at sunrise, I came out to her
Mark: I was so nervous, I had to leave the room, and came out to my mom from the kitchen.
Yo Yo: I grew up where it was illegal to be gay. I had to write love letters to my girlfriend in code
Andrew: I don't want to be hemmed into a box. I've done that for so many years.
Jennie: "So many people knew they were gay from a young age, but that's just not my story""
Jaxon: Walking back into work as a trans man was the most frightening thing I've ever done, but I've seen so many people change their mindset."
Rob: “I tried so hard to change who I was. I changed the way I dressed, the way I spoke and even the way I walked. I didn’t feel safe being myself.”
Serena: When I came out to my 9 year old son, he said “Mammy, that’s very brave of you!"
A National Coming Out Day special!
Paris: From the time I was a young kid, I always felt really connected to being both male and female
Oh! Hello season four!
Oskar: “Identity is an internal thing, not how you look to other people”
Divina de Campo “If ever there was a little queerdo kid – it was me”
Angela and Lucia: “We painted “Lesbians are everywhere!” on the sides of buildings!”
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