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Episode 2147:
In "Love is Not Enough - Part 1," Mark Manson of MarkManson.net delves into the complex nature of love, challenging the often romanticized notion that love is all one needs for a fulfilling relationship. Through contrasting examples of John Lennon and Trent Reznor, Manson illustrates how idealizing love can lead to overlooking essential values like respect, humility, and commitment, ultimately sabotaging relationships.
Read along with the original article(s) here: https://markmanson.net/love
Quotes to ponder:
"When we believe that 'all we need is love,' then like Lennon, we’re more likely to ignore fundamental values such as respect, humility and commitment towards the people we care about."
"Love does not equal compatibility. Just because you fall in love with someone doesn’t necessarily mean they’re a good partner for you to be with over the long term."
Episode references:
All You Need Is Love official song details and lyrics: https://www.thebeatles.com/all-you-need-love-0
The Global Meaning Behind The Beatles Hit Song ‘All You Need Is Love’: https://americansongwriter.com/the-global-meaning-behind-the-beatles-hit-song-all-you-need-is-love/
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2123: Your Worsening Worry Wants Your Help to De-Stress by Ingrid Y. Helander on Management of Stress & Anxiety
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