Episode 233: Help, I’m Exhausted from Pleasing Everyone and Afraid to Be Myself – How Do I Break Free?

Welcome back to the Jessica Cooke Podcast! 

In today's episode, I dive into a topic that resonates with so many of us: people-pleasing and the toll it takes on our well-being. Inspired by an email from Karen, a listener struggling with always putting others first, I explore how people-pleasing often stems from deeper issues like fear of rejection and lack of self-worth.

Together, we discuss practical tools to break free from this cycle, such as setting healthy boundaries, recognizing and challenging limiting beliefs, and taking steps to reclaim joy and authentic connections in life. This episode is about taking control, prioritising yourself, and embracing the messy beauty of imperfection.

3 Reasons Why You Should Listen to Today's Episode:

1. Practical Steps for Setting Boundaries: I share actionable tips for establishing boundaries at work, at home, and in social settings, helping you carve out the space you need for yourself without guilt.
2. Overcoming Limiting Beliefs: Learn how to identify and challenge the limiting beliefs that keep you trapped in people-pleasing behaviours, so you can finally start living life on your own terms.
3. Personal and Relatable Insights: I open up about my own experiences with people-pleasing and loneliness, and how I managed to transform those challenges into opportunities for growth. 

Let my journey inspire and guide you on your own path to healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Click play and let’s dive in.