The ADHD Smarter Parenting‘s Podcast
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It’s only natural for children to seek out situations where they feel confident, competent, independent, and autonomous. As discussed in the previous podcast, many children turn to video games to help fulfill these needs. Parents can counter the positives children receive from playing video games by using Effective Praise.
Effective Praise can increase your connection with your child as it teaches you how to validate the good things your child is doing. When children feel approved by their parents, it increases their confidence, competence, independence, and autonomy, which strengthens the emotional bond you have with them.
Getting praise signals to your child, “Hey, my parents are proud of me. My parents see what I’m doing well. I like it when they notice it. I want to keep doing this so they continue.”
As that bond strengthens, the benefits will be that your child listens to you more. They will spend more time with you. They will seek out your advice.
We can’t stress how important giving Effective Praise is.
One of the steps of Effective Praise requires parents to give their children a reason why they should continue the positive behavior. This step is hard for many parents. Most of us, when giving a reason to behave a certain way, give a reason that’s meaningful to them and not always to the person they are talking to.
When parents are able to give their child a meaningful reason, they are more likely to repeat that behavior as they feel like they are getting something out behaving that way. It can take some trial and error to figure out the things that are important to your child. If you’re struggling to figure out what is motivating your child, look at how they spend their free time or money. Those tend to be things that matter to them.
This podcast will be so insightful in helping you create a better bond with your child.
For full show notes and transcript visit: https://www.smarterparenting.com/adhd-parenting-podcast/
Ep #113: Why the Teaching-Family Model creates lasting change
Ep #112: Creating family routines that work
Ep #111:Why consequences aren't working
Ep #110: Anxiety management strategies for kids
Ep #109: Individualizing rewards and consequences
Ep #108: Being more effective when giving consequences and rewards
Ep #107: How to communicate with those you disagree with
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Ep #106: When parents aren't on the same page
Ep #105: Helping kids who struggle with correction
Ep #104: Investing in your child and your relationship
Ep #103: Creating a foundation for success with Following Instructions
Ep #102: Helping kids stay focused and on task
Ep #101: Teaching your kid to function without you
Ep #100: How to give consequences that work
Ep #99: Creating connection with your child
Ep #98: Helping kids go back to school
Ep #97: Feeling hopeful for the future
Ep #95:Why video games are so addictive and what parents can do
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