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Today I’m covering responses #41-50 ~
When kids are defiant, melting down, yelling at you, or crying because they are upset, want to do something they cannot do, or aren’t doing something you’ve asked them to do, it can be inconvenient, embarrassing, and exhausting. But does it have to be? Instead....
We can observe the behavior as simply that! A behavior. And behaviors pass unless we feed them by giving them too much attention which often causes the child to repeat the behavior. How we respond to our child’s behaviors can make or break our relationship with them and determine how often the child will repeat the same unwanted behavior.
No-Problem Parents™
give behavior problems only as much attention as they deserve and then life goes on. We understand that behaviors are just that—behaviors. They pass, and we don't need to give them more attention than they deserve. By responding in a matter-of-fact yet empathetic way, without sarcasm, criticism, anger, or convincing tones, we can maintain a positive relationship with our children.
Parenting is a journey with its ups and downs. These responses are your tools to handle challenging moments while maintaining a positive relationship with your child. Remember, you've got this!
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Foundation:
Three core lessons: Seek first to understand, prepare for the worst, and change the conversation.
Emphasis on conditional praise before unconditional praise.
Understanding Problem and Resistance:
Clear definitions for "Problem" and "Resistance" in the course context.
Acknowledging that children's choices matter and play a role in their future.
Objective:
Help parents respond (instead of reacting) to your children's behavior and develop resilient, self-aware children.
Recognize that your children crave your leadership to guide them into adulthood.
Resistance and Coping Skills:
Resistance is a coping mechanism that protects identity, self-worth, and knowledge.
Many coping skills are developed in early childhood.
Controlling Behavior:
Distinguishes between controlling behavior as a means of dominating and controlling behavior to stop specific problems or behaviors.
Benefits of No-Problem Approach:
Focus on changing behavior without making children pay for their mistakes or behavior.
Promotes a healthier parent-child relationship.
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EP 194 Intentional Parenting with God at the center of your Family Huddle Special Guest Amy Weichel
EP 193 Part 3/6: 60 Ways to Respond to Your Kids without Losing Your Cool with Jaci Finneman
EP 192 Depression, Drugs, Desperation & Divine Purpose; Today’s the day you decide to take control of your life with Kellan Fluckiger
EP 191 Part 2: 60 Ways to Respond to Your Kids without Losing Your Cool
EP 190: Communicating & Advocating for each of your children’s unique learning and special needs with Helen Harwood Snell
EP 189 60 Ways to Respond to Your Kids without losing your cool Part 1
EP 188 Single Parenting, Self-Care, and Staying Cool: Insights from Dr. Gila Reckess
EP 187 Being Present: Navigating Career, Family, & Personal Passion with Guest Nick Goblirsch
EP 186 The Moms Guide to a Good Divorce; Essential Coparenting Tips with Author Sarah Armstrong
EP 185 Unlocking the Link Between Unmanaged Stress, Pain and Common Ailments: with Special Guest Tatiana Miller
EP 184 Teens and Adults: How to stop suffering from negative thoughts, feelings, emotions and beliefs with Special Guest Julian Robus
EP 183 Dyslexia or Gifted; Teach Your Student to LEARN how to Learn with Founder of the Learning Success Academy Kohila Sivas
EP 182 The Foundation of Fatherhood; Raising Good Fathers with special guest Germaine Gaspard
EP 181 Raising Purpose-Driven Pre-Teens and Teens with Special Guest Helen Verroux
EP 180 Break Free from the Pain of Sexual Abuse & How to protect our children with special guest Rachel Grant
EP 179 Be Better not Bitter at home and at work with Special Guest Mark Aylward of the Imperfect Mens Club
EP 178 Autism: Investing and Financial Planning for Independent Living with Special Guest Maria Zondervan
EP 177 Parenting Aging Parents; The Sandwich Generation with Special Guests Kim and Mike Barnes
EP 176 ”No, I Won’t and You Can’t Make Me!”: Helping Children Shift from Defiance to Compliance with Special Guest Ginny Luther
EP 175 From Crisis to Compassion; Reclaim your parenting story with special guest Sally Betters
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