BHE 145 - SCRATCH MY SOUL::Intercourse

We’re talking about love, relationships, and sex again.

— (4:34) Friendship jealousy and what causes it
— (13:38) The tension between expecting too much from a romantic partner and not expecting much at all
— (17:05) Western isolation puts more pressure on romantic relationships
— (20:25) The need to be seen in a relationship and what it means
— (24:26) All About Love by bell hooks defines love as an action to prioritize the other’s well-being
— (32:06) We can only love or see an other to the degree that we can see and care for our own well-being
— (38:44) Putting yourself aside for an other vs not being a doormat or codependent simp
— (44:38) Self-love and knowing how to set boundaries is an important aspect of loving an other
— (49:30) Learning to date and talk to the potential sex partners

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