When I started officiating weddings I was shocked to learn that none of what we traditionally associate with weddings are necessary for people to get married.
Vows? Nope.
1 Corinthians 13? Nuh uh.
I do's? You don't.
"I now pronounce you"? Nein.
All that you need to do to make it official is fill out the paperwork with a couple of witnesses. You could wrap it all up at a courthouse in the time it takes any of our bureaucracies to stumble along.
It reminds me of what we do with our church services. We think that they have to look a particular way because of what we have seen or experienced before. While this tradition is helpful in many ways, it can actually keep us from getting to the heart of what we could be doing.
Stand Sunday:: Orphans
Adulting::Growing in Maturity
Adulting::Maturity in Failure
Adulting:: Maturity in Community
Adulting:: Marks of Maturity
Power Dynamics:: So What?
Power Dynamics:: Power in Race
Power Dynamics:: Power in Gender
Power Dynamics:: Power in Church
Power Dynamics:: How it All Works
Stones Back to Life
In the Desert:: Sparkles of Refuge
In the Desert:: Yes! At Last!
In the Dessert:: Donkey Wisdom
In the Desert:: Anger that Exposes Grief
In the Desert:: Imposter Syndrome
In the Desert:: Believer and Atheist
In the Desert:: Three Feet of Quail
In the Desert:: Presence and Absence
In the Desert:: Mirrors and Potential
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