The ADHD Smarter Parenting‘s Podcast
Kids & Family:Parenting
We’ve heard so many parents say, “My child doesn’t do anything right.” Even the “worst” kids do things right. In fact, they may be doing a lot right. If we‘re focusing on the “bad,” that will be all we see, and we will miss what they do well.
The skill of Effective Praise helps parents acknowledge what kids are doing well, even if it’s small. When we focus on the positive, we will see things change as our kids will respond to the praise and acknowledgment of what they’re doing right.
Using Effective Praise is different than just offering general praise. General praise is sayings like, “Good job,” “Way to go,” “I’m proud of you.” While all of these sounds great, they won’t change your child’s behavior because they don’t tell a child anything.
On the other hand, Effective Praise helps a child understand what they are doing well and why they should continue it. Effective Praise is specific and tailored to your child and what they are doing.
Effective Praise sounds like, “Good job putting away your shoes. When you put away your shoes, you will know where they are, and you don’t have to spend time looking for them when you want to play with your friends.”
The hardest time to praise our children is when they are misbehaving, as it can be easy to think they don’t deserve praise. That is when you need to praise them! Remember, a child acts out because they are dealing with large emotions that they don’t know how to express. When you praise positive behaviors during a tantrum, it shows them they have options other than misbehaving and that even though they are acting out, you still love them and want to help them.
You can find the skill of Effective Praise on the Smarter Parenting website.
Ep #171: ADHD in adults
Ep #170: ADHD diagnosis and other issues
Ep #169: How Effective Praise can change relationships
Ep #168: 7 ways to raise resilient children: Part 2
Ep #167: 7 ways to raise resilient children: Part 1
Ep #166: Why parents need to practice self-care
Ep #165: Parenting styles and why our evidence-based skills work
Ep #164: Avoid holiday meltdowns using Role-play
Ep #163: How to stop your child from arguing
Ep #162: Using Effective Praise to instill gratitude in our kids
Ep #161: How to set healthy boundaries with family
Ep #160: Why an ADHD diagnosis affects everyone in the family
Ep #159: Time management strategies I wish I‘d known as a child with ADHD
Ep #158: Halloween safety tips for kids
Ep #157: When kids won‘t go to school
Ep #156: Using coping skills to help kids manage big emotions
Ep #155: How to manage multiple schedules
Ep #154: Keeping kids safe online
Ep #153: Tips for creating routines that work
Ep #152: How to get your child to accept no
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