In this episode, Conscious Leadership coach Tim Day and I explore the complexities of human experience and how those complexities impact every relationship we have, especially the one with ourselves. We are living in a world where the need to be “right” is more powerful than our desire to be in relationship with people we love and care for, to be happy or to be at peace.
Why is this? There are a lot of reasons that we explore in this episode…the biggest one being that we are wired to detect threats and there are so many things that feel threatening to us on a daily ...
In this episode, Conscious Leadership coach Tim Day and I explore the complexities of human experience and how those complexities impact every relationship we have, especially the one with ourselves. We are living in a world where the need to be “right” is more powerful than our desire to be in relationship with people we love and care for, to be happy or to be at peace.
Why is this? There are a lot of reasons that we explore in this episode…the biggest one being that we are wired to detect threats and there are so many things that feel threatening to us on a daily basis! We talk about the power of awareness and self-compassion, the transformative nature of curiosity, what it means to loosen the grip of threat (literally one breath at a time) and how to cultivate a loving relationship with all of the parts of ourselves so that we can better co-create more loving relationships with others.
Here are some of my favorite takeaways:
- We often prioritize being right over being in relationship.
- Curiosity can help to shift feelings of threat.
- Our families of origin shape so many of our emotional responses.
- Every experience we have shapes the lens with which we see the world.
- Recognizing our own fears is an essential part of improving our relationship with ourselves and others.
- Active listening fosters understanding and connection. We all have a deep desire to be seen and heard.
- Embracing our messiness and magnificence as part of being human experience transforms us and every relationship we have.
Bring your curiosity and enjoy this episode!
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About Tim Day
Tim is a transformational Conscious Leadership coach and facilitator who models unwavering presence, a masterful ability to listen, an approach that is both direct and loving. Tim works with individuals and teams to help them identify patterns that are keeping them stuck and provides tools and support to help them transform.
In addition to 1:1 coaching and executive work, Tim leads groups through an eight month journey as they challenge and support one another in doing their work. He facilitates the group work, provides 1:1 coaching, and curates retreats where change and growth occur.
Additionally, For more than 20 years, Tim has been involved in men's warrior work and has staffed more than 25 weekends, inviting men to step into their mature masculine. Relentless in his work, Tim coaches with co-voyagers and co-voyages with compassion and with a willingness to sit in discomfort and unknowing.
Tim feels most alive when in service to those on their journey and when immersed in the beauty and silence of nature.
You can reach out to Tim at timday10@mac.com
