In this powerful episode, host Lindsey Nichol explores the dual nature of distraction in eating disorder recovery—how it can either support your healing journey or keep you trapped in unhealthy patterns. Drawing wisdom from Proverbs, Lindsey breaks down when distraction becomes a helpful tool versus when it's a form of avoidance that prevents true recovery.
What You'll Learn
The two faces of distraction: Understanding when distraction works for you versus against you in recovery
In this powerful episode, host Lindsey Nichol explores the dual nature of distraction in eating disorder recovery—how it can either support your healing journey or keep you trapped in unhealthy patterns. Drawing wisdom from Proverbs, Lindsey breaks down when distraction becomes a helpful tool versus when it's a form of avoidance that prevents true recovery.
What You'll Learn
- The two faces of distraction: Understanding when distraction works for you versus against you in recovery
- Identifying unhealthy distractions: Recognizing when you're using circumstances, people, or timing as excuses to deprioritize your healing
- Strategic distraction techniques: Practical ways to interrupt urges for compulsive exercise, body checking, restrictive eating, and other disordered behaviors
- The "Stop, Drop, and Go" method: How to immediately shift your environment when triggering urges arise
- Questions for self-reflection: What your soul, body, and mind truly need in this moment
Key Takeaways
✨ Distraction can be leveraged temporarily to prevent unhealthy actions—like reaching out to support, journaling, changing your environment, or having a dance party
✨ Unhealthy distraction looks like telling yourself "now isn't the right time" or using life circumstances to avoid recovery work
✨ Common urges to distract from include: compulsive exercise, repetitive safe foods, body checking in mirrors, scale obsession, and other OCD-like behaviors
✨ The "messy middle" of recovery is normal—that awkward phase where you're better than before but haven't fully arrived
✨ Important questions to ask yourself: How can I honor myself right now? What does my soul need? What does my body need? What does my mind need?
Episode Quotes
"Guard your heart above all else for it determines the course of your life. Look straight ahead and fix your eyes on what lies before you." - Proverbs
"Nothing good, including progress, occurs when you're confused or when you're completely sidetracked."
"If today is not a good day for this, then when is going to be a good day to put yourself first, to put your health first?"
"A distraction is simply a thing that prevents you from giving your complete attention to something else."
Healthy Distraction Ideas Mentioned
- Reaching out to your support person (friend, family, coach, therapist)
- Leaving the triggering environment immediately
- Journaling and reflection
- Self-care and pampering activities
- Getting fresh air (sitting on a park bench, going outside)
- Dancing to music on blast
- Household activities (vacuuming, organizing)
- Spending quality time with loved ones
- Watching comforting shows with cozy blankets
- Reading Scripture or inspirational material
Resources Mentioned
- Work with Lindsey: One-on-one personalized recovery coaching available at www.herbestself.co
- Join the Community: Private Facebook group "Hope and Healing for Eating Disorder Recovery" www.herbestselfsociety.com
- Recovery Collective Support Group: www.herbestself.co/recoverycollective
- 1:1 Client Applications: HBS Co. Recovery Coaching - Client Application - Google Forms
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About the Host
Lindsey Nichol is a former competitive figure skater turned God-led entrepreneur, boy mom, and digital CEO. She understands how core beliefs formed in childhood can create and maintain eating disorder patterns, and she's passionate about helping women identify and transform these beliefs to find lasting freedom.
If this episode helped you feel hopeful again and remember your worth isn't found in your body or on your plate, please share it with someone who needs to hear this message. Your support helps more women break the chains of limiting beliefs.
*While I am a certified health coach, anorexia survivor & eating disorder recovery coach, I do not intend the use of this message to serve as medical advice. Please refer to the disclaimer here in the show & be sure to contact a licensed clinical provider if you are struggling with an eating disorder.
