How to Get Guests to Actually Follow Your Dress Code

Welcome back to The Pre Nup, the wedding-obsessed podcast designed to help you plan your dream day—and survive all the chaos along the way! I’m your host, Adriana, and this week we’re pulling back the curtain on the wedding industry with NYC-based planner Lara Mahler, founder of The Privilege Is Mine.

From skipping morning jitters and waking up with your partner, to rethinking first looks and speeches, Lara’s approach to planning is refreshingly real and totally freeing. If you’re an offbeat bride (or just a stressed one), this episode will change how you see the day.

Episode Highlights:
- “No kids” weddings and how to enforce your boundaries
- The right way to tell guests your color palette
- What to do if someone cancels day-of
- The truth about the one-year wedding gift myth
- Lara’s hot takes on what makes a wedding truly unforgettable