Postpartum Identity Crisis? How to Reignite Joy and Purpose in Small Doses | Ep. 51

There’s a version of you that no one sees anymore—not because she’s gone, but because life got so loud and she got so quiet.

In today’s episode, we sit down with that forgotten part of you and whisper: “I still see you.”

Through real listener questions, I explore the hidden emotional terrain so many parents walk silently:
from grieving lost freedom, to watching your partner thrive while you unravel, to the numbness that creeps in and replaces passion with survival.

There is nothing wrong with you.
You’re becoming.

And together, we’ll name what’s been exiled, explore how identity gets reshaped in the trenches of caregiving, and discover how small acts of self-connection can start bringing you back.

Today we explore:

• The invisible grief that lives inside parental love

• Why your partner might be thriving while you feel lost

• The neuroscience behind emotional numbness and creativity blocks

• What it means to reclaim yourself—gently, without guilt
  
  

Whether you’re hiding in the bathroom with your earbuds or taking a quiet solo walk, this episode is your mirror.

Come back to yourself, one breath at a time.

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Full Transcript HERE.

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Markella Kaplani, M.A.
Clinical-Counseling Psychologist
Parenthood & Relationship Coach
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