In the physical therapy room at Walter Reed Army Medical Center, Gracie and I encountered wounded soldiers dealing with various forms of "friendly fire." One soldier in particular lost a leg due to being hit by his own team ...and other soldiers dealt with crumbling marriages and families as they struggled to recover from devastating wounds.
How many of us deal with deep wounds caused by those “on our own team?”
How many of us have caused damage to the ones we love and swore to protect?
Sometimes “friendly fire” wounds are compounded with the shame of the wound itself. We feel like our wounds come with dishonor, and our fists clench with a rage —and we want to strike the one(s) who hurt us. One only needs to watch five minutes of the news each day to see the fury erupting in our country over the feelings of mistreatment. The protests on our street reflect that being wounded by those on the same team can leave scars that take can take generations to heal.
In moments of clarity, we can also realize with horror how poorly we treated those counting on us—and the guilt and shame fill us with despair. In our pain, we might even lash out at people who are simply trying to encourage us.
In a quiet corner of a military hospital, a teachable moment for our nation’s current challenges occurred. When gripped with resentment over wounds that should not have happened, we discover the path to recovery is flanked by those walking in their own healing. Their successes help inspire our own.
Peter Rosenberger is the host of HOPE FOR THE CAREGIVER. The nation's #1 broadcast and podcast show for family caregivers, Peter draws upon his 34+ year journey as a caregiver for his wife, Gracie, through a medical nightmare that includes 80+ surgeries, multiple amputations, and treatment by 100+ physicians.
Learn more at www.HopefortheCaregiver.com
CLICK HERE TO BE A PATRON FOR THIS PODCAST
"Though the wrong seems oft so strong..."
As Miserable Or As Happy As We Choose To Be
Navigating the Caregiver FOG (Bonus Material)
Easter Show for Caregivers
Nothing But The Blood
Humor While Not Shying From Heartache
He Stretched Out His Hand
When Caregivers Fear
Isolation: Fear's Breeding Ground
Elder Law With Atty Jason Neufeld
The Lighter Side of Caregiving
Caregiver, Boundaries, and Addiction
How Affordable ( and Easy) is Burial Insurance?
The3 P's For Doctor Appointments
Broadcast Show03-06-2021
"Already Toast:" Author/Caregiver, Kate Washington, discusses her new book for Caregivers.
A Firefighter's Invention is Protecting The Lives of Hundreds of Thousands
Songwriter Jerry Salley Discusses Music, Nashville, and "Saving Grace"
Caregivers and Cancer
Sometimes, They're Just Mean
Join Podbean Ads Marketplace and connect with engaged listeners.
Advertise Today
Create your
podcast in
minutes
It is Free
The Relaxback UK Show
Your Sleep Guru Podcast
Good Nurse Bad Nurse
Nothing much happens: bedtime stories to help you sleep
این نقطه