THE Amicable Divorce Expert with Judith Weigle
Society & Culture:Relationships
In this episode of THE Amicable Divorce Expert podcast, you will learn the following:
1. What defines Communication
a. Our words
b. Our tone of voice
c. How we physically appear
2. How does bad communication sound?
a. Filled with anger
b. Yelling
c. Arrogant
d. Threatening
3. How does good communication sound?
a. Listening to learn
b. Not interrupting
c. Speaking from the heart, without blame
d. Soft or nonthreatening tone of voice
e. Compassion
f. Asking questions to get a deeper understanding of what your spouse is trying to say
g. If you’re responding to a threatening spouse, keep responses to a minimum, and very neutral; don’t buy into the argument
4. BIFF
a. In-person bad communication: Response (bad to good)
b. Text communication
c. Email communication
d. Timing of bad communication responses
5. Court Communication
a. Judges don’t want to hear you talk shit about your spouse. (Judge Terry Crone and Judge Michele Lowrance)
b. When one party hires a shark lawyer and the other party is self-represented, don’t think there is an inherent disadvantage (Pam Payton)
6. Mediation Communication
a. Get legally educated so you can negotiate from a point of knowledge
b. Look your best
c. Be on time
d. Be prepared
e. Listen without interrupting
f. Don’t grimace or make negative facial gestures
g. Don’t say, “Are you done yet?” in an exasperated way.
h. Don’t cop attitude
i. Don’t fight
Taking Responsibility Alleviates Pain
Tips for Living Together During Divorce
When a Parent Doesn't Want To Be a Parent
Divorce Is a New Awakening: Time To Make Some Changes
Timing and Compromise are Essential
In Mediation It's Not What You Say But How You Say It
Divorcing a Narcissist: My Story with Andrea Zito
Believing the Ideal Rather Than Reality
History of Marriage
Communication Dance: Language of Divorce
Reflections from a Gen-Z Child of Divorce with Sebastian Schug
Millennial Divorces with Millennial Attorney Samantha McBride
Co-Parenting Tips with Frances Barry, LMFT
Harnessing the Power of Acceptance with Daniel A. Miller
Dividing a Business and Other Assets with Lorna Mouton Riff, Forensic Accountant
A Child's Reflection on Divorce with Denise Gavron.
Child Custody Mediation with Stacey Lisk
Protecting Assets Post Divorce with Attorney Mitchell Port
Controlling Legal Fees with Robyn Santucci, Part II
How to Hire the Right Attorney with Robyn Santucci, Part I
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