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224 - Transforming Relationships Through the Enneagram with Christa Hardin

Purchase the Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Ever wondered how understanding your Enneagram type could transform your relationship?Curious which enneagram pairings are most common—and what makes them tick?Looking for fun, accessible ways to deepen emotional and intimate connection with your partner?In this episode of the Relationship Renovation Podcast, hosts Tarah and EJ Kerwin sit down with Christa Hardin, renowned therapist, author, and founder of Enneagram and Marriage. Christa dives deep into the power of the Enneagram as a tool for couples’ growth—unpacking how knowing your type, and your partner’s, doesn’t just explain your quirks but opens the door to more compassion, stronger communication, and real healing. Whether you’re new to the Enneagram or already a type enthusiast, Christa shares actionable insights, intriguing stories from the therapy room, and relatable examples of how the Enneagram fast-tracks understanding and connection.Listeners will walk away with a clear overview of all nine Enneagram types, practical first steps to begin their own Enneagram journey, and surprising tips for applying these insights in everyday life and even in the bedroom! Christa’s approach is warm, research-based, and refreshingly down-to-earth, making this episode a must-listen for anyone seeking fresh hope and new tools for a thriving partnership. If you’re ready for more connection, less conflict, and a better understanding of both yourself and your partner, hit play on this episode—you’ll want to share it with every couple you know!Enneagram and MarriageVisit relationshiprenovation.com for more tips and resources to elevate your partnership and emotional well-being!Relationship Renovation YoutubeContact UsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

223 - Code Word: Transform Your Arguments With This Simple Relationship Tool

Purchase the Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Are you tired of conflicts with your partner escalating and leaving you both feeling disconnected?Curious about a proven system that helps couples pause, self-regulate, and return to emotional safety—even in the heat of the moment?Want to model healthier conflict resolution for your kids and transform the dynamic of your entire household?Tarah and EJ Kerwin take you deep into the transformative power of the “code word” system—a real-world tool that has enhanced their marriage and countless others. Discover how couples can use a simple, playful word to hit the pause button before arguments spiral out of control. The hosts share step-by-step guidance on identifying when you’re outside your window of tolerance, negotiating how long to separate, and what to do during your break so you return to the conversation more grounded and connected. Plus, they address the science behind emotional dysregulation, practical tips for using code words with kids around, and the importance of healthy reconnection after conflict.Loaded with relatable stories, actionable exercises, and heartfelt encouragement, this episode will motivate you to create new, healthier patterns in your relationship, whether you’re struggling with frequent arguments or just want more emotional safety and intimacy. Ready to learn the code word approach that Tarah and EJ have used for nearly a decade? Tune in and start transforming the way you and your partner handle conflict. You’ll walk away with a concrete, science-backed system for building a stronger, more connected partnership—and maybe even some new ideas for your personalized code word!Visit relationshiprenovation.com for more tips and resources to elevate your partnership and emotional well-being!Relationship Renovation YoutubeContact UsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

222 - Emotional Affairs Unveiled: Boundaries, Transparency, and Steps for Recovery

Purchase the Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.How do you know if a close friendship has crossed the line into an emotional affair?What are the warning signs and root causes behind emotional affairs in a relationship?How can couples heal from emotional affairs and prevent them from happening in the future?In this honest and insightful episode of the Relationship Renovation podcast, hosts EJ and Tarah Kerwin dive deep into the complicated world of emotional affairs. Drawing directly from their extensive experience working with couples and real-life questions, they tackle the common dilemma of defining emotional infidelity versus friendship and shed light on the subtle boundaries that can get blurred. The hosts break down key signs of emotional affairs, including secrecy, emotional intensity, and prioritizing another person over your partner. They also discuss why emotional affairs can feel just as damaging—if not more—than physical ones, and why so many people unknowingly slip into these situations.If you’re seeking practical guidance to strengthen your relationship, this episode offers actionable strategies to address unmet needs, create emotional safety, and establish healthy boundaries. EJ and Tarah share hope-filled insights, including statistics on recovery and tips on building stronger emotional connections with your partner. Whether you’re concerned that an emotional affair may be happening, experiencing it firsthand, or want tools for prevention, this episode is a must-listen for anyone who wants to build trust and intimacy in their relationship. Don’t miss out on this essential guide to understanding and healing from emotional affairs—tune in now!Visit relationshiprenovation.com for more tips and resources to elevate your partnership and emotional well-being!Relationship Renovation YoutubeContact UsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

221 - Building Healthier Relationships Through Personalized Physical Wellness with Wits & Weights' Philip Pape

Purchase the Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Ever wonder how physical wellness can transform not just your own life, but your relationship too?Struggling with motivation and consistency when it comes to fitness, whether individually or as a couple?Curious about why strict diets and rigid approaches so often lead to frustration—and what to do instead?In this compelling episode of Relationship Renovation, hosts EJ and Tarah Kerwin welcome Philip Pape from the acclaimed Wits & Weights podcast for an insightful and motivating conversation. Philip shares his unique, data-driven approach to strength training and nutrition, emphasizing the power of flexibility over rigid, one-size-fits-all rules. Together, they explore how embracing customized wellness strategies can foster lasting confidence, both as individuals and within couples. From overcoming obstacles and judgment to building sustainable habits, the discussion is full of practical tips and real-life stories that will inspire you to rethink your own health journey.Whether you're tackling fitness alone or trying to get in sync as a couple, this episode is packed with actionable advice you can use right away. Discover how redefining success, encouraging choice, and focusing on daily "micro-wins" can help you and your partner become stronger—physically, mentally, and emotionally. If you're ready for a realistic, empowering perspective on health and relationships, this episode is your perfect starting point! Don’t miss Phillip’s insights and new ways to pursue wellness together.Philip Pape - Wits & WeightsWits & Weights PodcastWits & Weights InstagramVisit relationshiprenovation.com for more tips and resources to elevate your partnership and emotional well-being!Relationship Renovation YoutubeContact UsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

220 - Reversing Intimacy Anxiety: Strategies for Couples to Reconnect

Purchase the Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.What exactly is intimacy anxiety, and how does it manifest in a relationship?How can couples identify signs of intimacy anxiety in their relationship?What are effective strategies to overcome intimacy anxiety and rebuild emotional and physical connections?Dive deep into the intricacies of intimacy anxiety with EJ and Tarah Kerwin in this enlightening episode of the Relationship Renovation Podcast. Discover what intimacy anxiety truly means and how it could be silently influencing your relationship. EJ and Tarah break down the common symptoms and root causes—that range from past traumas to mismatched libidos. Whether it’s a feeling of unease during date night or avoiding your partner’s advances, uncover the subtle signals that indicate intimacy anxiety might be present in your relationship.As the episode unfolds, EJ and Tarah provide listeners with practical tools to combat intimacy anxiety and foster deeper emotional and physical connections. They emphasize the significance of timing, setting, and mutual understanding when addressing sensitive topics with your partner. Equip yourself with the knowledge to identify and manage intimacy anxiety, and take the first steps towards nurturing a more connected and harmonious relationship. Tune in to unlock the potential of vulnerability and communication as paths to an enriched partnership.Visit relationshiprenovation.com for more tips and resources to elevate your partnership and emotional well-being!Relationship Renovation YoutubeContact UsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands