#63: My Cringe: On Jealousy, competition, + the need to be special
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Episode Highlights:
The need to be “the best”
The “Little Self’s" need to be seen
The trap of toxic positivity
Pep talks + reframes might not be the solution
The gifts of jealousy, need, and comparison
A practice for making space for those “cringe-y” feelings
In this deeply vulnerable solo episode, Analisa explores the “cringe-y and crunchy” feeling of jealousy. How can we honor the part of ourselves that wants to be the best? When & how can we make space for the fear of not being the best? Can we answer this ego with love? Analisa shares her own stories of grappling with this, in the context of coaching a client through it. She even guides us through a practice of holding space for these shadows. Bookmark this episode to listen the next time you are in final callbacks with your bestie, or doubting your place “in the room.”
Topic Shift Time Stamps
0:00 Analisa’s Intro
2:43 Client Inspiration for this Episode
4:40 Bringing the Cringe & the Crunch
6:13 Sidebar: The Gift of Acknowledging the Negative
8:55 There Are Two Understudies
11:30 We Want to Be the Best
13:44 Going Back to the Client Example
15:07 The Creative Fear: I Am Not Special
17:06 Feel the Pain that Comes Along
19:01 The Gift of These Feelings: A Practice For Learning from Them
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A Balancing Act is hosted by Analisa Leaming, Broadway actor + soulful coach for creatives. This season is designed to inspire performers and creatives to journey towards their dreams with more soul and less attachment to outcomes and society's definitions of success.
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