“4.
Sexual boundaries
Healthy sexual boundaries include consent, agreement, respect, understanding of preferences and desires, and privacy.
Healthy sexual boundaries include:
Asking for consent
Discussing and asking for what pleases you
Requesting condom use if you want it
Discussing contraception
Saying no to things that you do not like or that hurt you
Protecting the privacy of the other person
This might sound like:
"Do you want to have sex now?"
"Is this comfortable for you?"
"Tell me what you like."
"Tell me what you don't like."
"I don't like that. Let's try something different."
"I don't want to have sex tonight. Can we cuddle instead?"
"I am really into [insert desire here]. Is that something you would feel comfortable with?"
Sexual boundary violations include:
Sulking, punishing, or getting angry if someone does not want to have sex
Not asking for consent
Pressure to engage in unwanted sexual acts
Unwanted sexual comments
Leering
Lying about contraceptive use
Lying about your health history
Criticizing the other person's sexual preferences
Unwanted touch, assault, or rape.” -Mindbodygreen.
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