Ep. 276 - How to Mind Your Own Business and Let People Be

It's tiring to constantly get worked up about other people's lives, trying to control their actions and beliefs. Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar encourage believers to become disciplined in knowing when to keep quiet. The concept of leading a quiet life, minding our own business, and working with our hands serves as a witness to the gospel. 

Increasing knowledge can lead to sorrow, as Solomon experienced, surrounded by less wise people. When our children don't heed our advice, they often learn through hardships rather than through guidance. It's crucial to lay a foundation of what God calls us to be stewards of. A quiet life focuses on family, church, and neighbors, avoiding unnecessary anxiety. God didn't create us to be all-knowing, as our phones make us.

E.Z. mentions Ray as an example of not meddling in people’s business. When E.Z. married Ray's daughter, Ray understood that they were their own family unit and refrained from interfering. A common issue for married couples involves handling holidays. Mark addresses this by giving his kids and their families the freedom to make their own choices without pressure, fostering closeness. Crowding someone only pushes them away.

When we see people in our circle going through difficulties, do we wait for them to come to us? This depends on our hearts. A genuine desire to mind our own business naturally shows through. Being discerning is essential, but checking up on one another is good. It’s how we approach the person that matters. 1 Peter 4:15 highlights the seriousness of being a busybody, as it can destroy a family. The sin that causes us to meddle is often comparison, leading to legalism, pride, and hatred, making us feel more righteous than others.

Ultimately, meddling violates love. Have we prayed for the person before talking about them? Have we earnestly prayed for their well-being? Convictions can be a challenging area. Some believers may struggle with listening to secular music but need to let others have their own experiences. However, if someone listens to vulgar music, it might be worth discussing. Our experiences differ, so we should give ourselves to prayer and encouragement. When approaching others, do so with a humble, gentle spirit, being a breath of fresh air to them.

In summary, a quiet life that focuses on family, church, and neighbors helps us avoid unnecessary anxiety and meddling in others' affairs. By praying for others and approaching them with humility and gentleness, we can foster stronger relationships and live in a way that honors God.

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Ray Comfort
Emeal (“E.Z.”) Zwayne
Mark Spence
Oscar Navarro