132 The Relationship Engineer - Bob Wischer

In this episode, Doug Beitz welcomes Bob Wischer, a Relationship Engineer, founder of Men Becoming Better Men coaching, and host of the Men Becoming Better Men podcast. Bob shares his powerful journey from the depths of despair following a painful divorce to finding joy, meaning, and connection in his life. He talks about how he systematically re-engineered his life, transformed his mindset, and embraced personal responsibility to create lasting change.

Key Discussion Points:

1. Bob’s Journey to Self-Discovery:

   • Bob's life was upended by a painful divorce that nearly destroyed his relationship with his children.
   • His dedication to self-reflection, accountability, and coaching led him to transform his mindset and re-engineer his life.
   • Now, happily remarried with four children, Bob’s story serves as a beacon of hope for men feeling lost and disconnected.

2. Intuition and Spiritual Guidance:

   • Bob shares his interpretation of intuition, which he sees as the Holy Spirit guiding his life.
   • He discusses how his faith in Christ and the Holy Spirit has been a constant, even before he consciously accepted it.

3. The Importance of Integrity in Men’s Lives:

   • Integrity is crucial for personal growth and maintaining healthy relationships.
   • Bob emphasizes the importance of being honest with oneself and others, sharing examples from his own life where a lack of integrity led to issues.
   • He highlights how the lack of integrity in men can lead to failed relationships and resentment from their partners.

4. Navigating Divorce and Its Emotional Stages:

   • Bob recounts the stages of emotions he experienced before, during, and after his divorce.
   • Before the divorce: Bob struggled with depression for years, feeling overwhelmed by unresolved childhood wounds and marital issues.
   • During the divorce: The process was highly challenging, exacerbated by his ex-wife’s reaction to his new relationship, leading to a fierce battle over custody and assets.
   • After the divorce: Bob’s journey of recovery took years, during which he gradually resolved his unresolved issues and found peace and fulfillment.

5. Coaching and Helping Men Find Purpose:

   • Bob discusses how he now dedicates his life to helping other men through coaching, focusing on rediscovering purpose, enhancing relationships, and embracing their authentic selves.
   • He talks about the role of connection, integrity, and purpose in men’s lives, and how these elements are crucial for lasting personal transformation.

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