Love is Hard - Part 1 with Dr. Mark Hicks

In this thought-provoking episode, we delve into the complexities of love and relationships with our special guest, Dr. Mark Hicks. While love can be simple, it often feels intricate and challenging due to our past and present experiences. Together, we explore the question: “What Makes Love So Difficult?”

Dr. Hicks addresses the impact of toxic relationships and chronic issues that can lead to unresolved conflicts, ultimately causing some relationships to reach a breaking point. He emphasizes the importance of self-reflection, encouraging listeners to stop and consider their contributions to relationship dynamics rather than defaulting to defensiveness with statements like, “That’s just the way I was raised.”

Throughout the discussion, Dr. Hicks introduces two crucial stages of grief and acceptance that lay the groundwork for healthier, more productive relationships. He eloquently articulates that love is a feeling, a learned process, and a vital skill set—integral to cultivating deeper connections and enhancing our self-worth.

Drawing an inspiring analogy, Dr. Hicks compares the soul to a diamond that may appear to be just a rock after rolling around in a cow pasture. This diamond can be polished with care and attention to reveal its true beauty. He reminds us that we are seen as precious by God, the Creator, the I AM Presence, and Christ—a powerful affirmation of our intrinsic worth.

About Our Guest

Dr. Mark A. Hicks is an author, speaker, ghostwriter, and relationships coach with expertise in mental health and family dynamics. Holding a Doctor of Ministry Degree, a Master in Mental Health Counseling, a Master of Divinity, and a Bachelor in Psychology, his educational background reflects his unwavering commitment to understanding the human psyche and guiding individuals toward healthy relationships and meaningful lives.

Mark’s goal is to spread a message of love that is practical, tangible, and realistic for everyone, regardless of their relationship experience so far. In his book Learning Love, he teaches the five components of love anyone can learn and practice to build healthy, happy, thriving relationships.