#205 Get A Loadah This Guy

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… What do dating profiles have do to with class, gender and misogynoir? Nothing, just everything. Then, how to say no to colorism in hollywood, how the UN is dealing with wartime sexual violence, and last (we’ll give a spoiler warning when it’s time) but Game of Thrones is a fiction fantasy show that’s on that real time real life bull shit. Content warning - discussion of sexual violence as an act of war 52:25 to 58:20 This week’s hot list: Tinder, BLK, bi-sexuality and dating apps, Nathalie Emmanuel and being Black on Game of Thrones, the Princess and the Frog film we didn’t ask for, Universoul Circus, animal rights, ableism, accessibility, BTAC, non-binary, Xena, Afrolatinx erasure, United Nations takes one step forward, Tr*mp takes it two steps back, end money bail, #FreeBlackMamas, National Bail Out, Game of Thrones and how racism finds its way to fiction and fantasy, plus mad other ish! Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! EPISODE SPONSOR Learn more about “Love Your Loud… At Work: Ways to Maneuver Work Sh!t As A Boisterous Black Woman” e-book at www.loudgirlmovement.com WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL & SPONSOR INQUIRIES teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj EVENTS JOIN US at #PodinLiveNYC: Podcast Meetup Saturday, 5/11 4pm FREE.99 with RSVP! https://www.eventbrite.com/e/podinlivenyc-podcast-meet-up-2019-tickets-60457502016 PAY BLACK WOMEN Check out #FreeBlackMamasSyracuse GoFundMe: https://www.gofundme.com/freeblackmamassyracuse For more stats and info: Contact doula4aqueen@gmail.com | IG @villagebirthintl https://nationalbailout.org/ https://www.prisonpolicy.org/reports/pie2018women.html NOTES & EXTRA TEA Listen to Vagesteem’s “I’ve Got A Story To Tell” featuring abortion stories: https://soundcloud.com/vagesteem/i-got-a-story-to-tell Read J.’s review of Vita Ayala’s comic Xena Warrior Princess: https://www.youdontreadcomics.com/comics/2019/4/29/le8tskii7du1rikibah20p579q1qds?rq=janicia Listen to Marsha’s Plate’s “#79 #BTAC2019Leveling Up: Trans 2.0? Featuring Lain & Jekksyn” two non-binary activits: https://soundcloud.com/danella-xuc/79-btac2019-leveling-up-trans-20 Listen to Marsha’s Plate for a discussion with parents of a non-binary person “#80: #BTAC2019 A Plate For Parents”: https://soundcloud.com/danella-xuc/80-btac2019-plate-for-the-parents Watch “Boss: The Black Experience In Business” - https://www.pbs.org/wnet/boss/ This week’s closing clip is from @JordanCampa on twitter: https://twitter.com/jordancampa/status/1124031095744409611?s=11 This episode of Tea with Queen and J. was created, hosted & produced by Janicia & Naima with editorial support by Sam Riddell Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women. Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at https://ohenecornelius.com Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/