#263 Black Sh*t

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… You’re a Black feminist but you got a whole misogynoirist at the crib drinking up all the juice in the house. How the fvck did that happen? Then Black American, African-American, or Black, how are we defining ourselves and does it even matter in the 2020’s??? This week’s hotlist - Shemar Moore’s viral Black joy, anxiety & mental health, Whitney Houston, mindless TV, affirmations and how not to give up on 2020, men and misogynoir, growth in romantic relationships, women vs. females (yep, again), African American vs. Black American and maybe you should just mind your business and more... EPISODE TIMESTAMPS Libations 4:50 Donation libations 20:44 Affirmations 24:49 A note on language and Black trans women 33:34 Your husband is misogynist 39:26 Black, African-American, Afro-American 57:14 Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL & SPONSOR INQUIRIES teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj Where to Donate Your Money and Time to Help Protestors: https://nyulocal.com/where-to-donate-your-money-and-time-to-help-protesters-ef2727d7a9d2 Queen’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/CXV9ZDWZ3PP9?ref_=wl_share J.’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1NP09USMPJ0TB?ref=cm_sw_em_r_wl_ip_VEVWdvdDDemm Send us snail mail: Tea with Queen and J. P.O. Box 1617 229 East 85th Street New York, NY 10028 NOTES AND EXTRA TEA: Thread of old Soul Train clips that Queen mentioned in her libation https://youtu.be/RklTDIQY2BM Check out Queen and J. on “The Black Vote” episode of The Grapevine https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LFHtaTc7SYY&t=3275s Check out J. kicking it as a guest on the Smoke and Mirrors show https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ED0uWR8MEyo What we’re drinking? This episode Queen was drinking tea from Teasbyg.com Last week’s episode #262 Who Do You Love? featuring conversation on co-conspiratorship with Black trans women: https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/262-who-do-you-love This weeks hashtag: #BlackPantherSoLit This week’s closing clip features Chadwick Bosmen at the MTV Movie Awards https://twitter.com/rexchapman/status/1299905634360532994?s=12 This episode was created, hosted and produced by Naima & Janicia Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women. Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at https://ohenecornelius.com