051: No Time for BULLSHIT!

Today’s episode is going to be slightly different compared to the usual script. Today’s episode is a dedication to Matthew “Spiffy” Smith, who unexpectedly passed-away on August 18th 2020, at the very young age of 25. 

Spiffy and I go back about 11 or 12 years; we grew up in the same town, went to the same school and were at all the same parties. Spiffy and I weren’t super tight, we weren’t best friends, we didn’t talk every month . . . BUT, over the years, we always kept in touch, we always encouraged each other in the pursuit of our dreams, and we always just checked in on each other. 

Though we had very different ambitions, Spiffy as a musician, me as an entrepreneur, it felt like we were somehow running on parallel paths. Spiffy and I had a mutual respect of each other’s hustle, each other’s craft.  

Quote: Give yourself more credit. Recognize your accomplishments and achievements. Think twice before you speak. Listen. Spread love. Give thanks. Appreciate. Be up for the challenge. Never make the same mistake twice. If you miss someone, tell them. Stop being so hard on yourself. If it bothers you, say something. Losing your enthusiasm is like losing your happiness. Watch good movies, listen to good music. Do something about it. Read and write. Always be willing to learn something new. Eat right and exercise. Save your money. Get to know your family better. If you don’t, someone else will. You can’t give up. There is always room to grow. Follow your heart. Be a part of the solution, not the problem. Be the change you would like to see in the world. Do you. – Matthew “Spiffy” Smith

Have you ever taken the time to really write down your beliefs? Have you ever tried to put into words your mission statement or your why? It’s very empowering to pen your thoughts on how to life a fulfilling and joyful life. By writing a personal credo, you're forced to clarify your beliefs in the context of your own experience. Focus creates meaning and provides direction that acts as a moral compass in an insanely distracting world, and helps you align your actions with your beliefs.

Personally, for me, I was inspired by his dedication and ambition. Spiffy motivated me to keep perfecting my craft and chasing my dreams no matter what other people had to say. It takes conviction, confidence, and guts to be yourself. Spiffy paved his own path, unapologetically, and that’s special. Rest in Power Spiffy, I love you dawg! 

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