The Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’Malley
Business:Entrepreneurship
90: We don’t have control over anything—except how we react- and the Enneagram can help
2020-10-27
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How things have changed.
When I was growing up, we didn’t have the internet or high-tech devices (I got my first cell phone at age 30) and we also didn’t have easy access to resources on personal development. This makes me a first-generation personal developer as I like to say.
Listen now
Nowadays, there’s too much information.
For younger generations who’ve been technologically connected their whole lives and were exposed to personal development at a much younger age, I’d argue there’s too much information on the topic out there now.
There’s a disconnect.
If you’re at a point in your life in which you really need to make a shift and all of this information isn’t doing jack for you, there’s a disconnect.
The missing piece is taking what you know in your head, processing it through your heart, and then being able to execute in integrity.
My journey.
I went to nine therapists and was able to manipulate every single one of them. I knew at a cognitive, intellectual level what was happening in my life—and I thought just knowing it would change it.
Where I needed help—and where you might need help—is taking all the understanding you have of your wounds and your childhood and working it through your heart space. Until you do this and really grieve your way through it, it’s impossible to move forward in the way that you really want.
Until you do this, you’re going to always feel like there’s something missing.
Quotes:
0:42
We don't have control over jack sh*t in 2020, however what you do have control over is your reaction, and your response to things that are hard.
3:46
The missing piece is taking what you know in your head and processing it through your heart, and then being able to execute in integrity.
5:41
But until you work it through the heart space and really grieve your way through it, it’s impossible to move forward.
7:51
If you want something different it's going to require something different of you.
8:55
New levels, new devils.
9:25
We can pivot all day long, but if we don't have compassion for ourselves and give ourselves some grace in this process honestly you're going to keep repeating it.
10:25
If you know you are going to go back to the same old sh*t why even begin.
13:08
You don't have to operate from a place where the world is being so conditional. You can take power back today. You can take full control of your life today.
13:37
We were never meant to do any of this alone, we were meant to be in connection and in communication with each other.
15:09
When I use the tool of the Enneagram with you I help you get in integrity in all areas of your life.
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When I was growing up, we didn’t have the internet or high-tech devices (I got my first cell phone at age 30) and we also didn’t have easy access to resources on personal development. This makes me a first-generation personal developer as I like to say.
Listen now
Nowadays, there’s too much information.
For younger generations who’ve been technologically connected their whole lives and were exposed to personal development at a much younger age, I’d argue there’s too much information on the topic out there now.
There’s a disconnect.
If you’re at a point in your life in which you really need to make a shift and all of this information isn’t doing jack for you, there’s a disconnect.
The missing piece is taking what you know in your head, processing it through your heart, and then being able to execute in integrity.
My journey.
I went to nine therapists and was able to manipulate every single one of them. I knew at a cognitive, intellectual level what was happening in my life—and I thought just knowing it would change it.
Where I needed help—and where you might need help—is taking all the understanding you have of your wounds and your childhood and working it through your heart space. Until you do this and really grieve your way through it, it’s impossible to move forward in the way that you really want.
Until you do this, you’re going to always feel like there’s something missing.
Quotes:
0:42
We don't have control over jack sh*t in 2020, however what you do have control over is your reaction, and your response to things that are hard.
3:46
The missing piece is taking what you know in your head and processing it through your heart, and then being able to execute in integrity.
5:41
But until you work it through the heart space and really grieve your way through it, it’s impossible to move forward.
7:51
If you want something different it's going to require something different of you.
8:55
New levels, new devils.
9:25
We can pivot all day long, but if we don't have compassion for ourselves and give ourselves some grace in this process honestly you're going to keep repeating it.
10:25
If you know you are going to go back to the same old sh*t why even begin.
13:08
You don't have to operate from a place where the world is being so conditional. You can take power back today. You can take full control of your life today.
13:37
We were never meant to do any of this alone, we were meant to be in connection and in communication with each other.
15:09
When I use the tool of the Enneagram with you I help you get in integrity in all areas of your life.
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