Problem #29: Who pays for the dates/trips? Is sex payment too? [Ft Tai & Amiri]
There is this mentality that when a man buys you a drink at the club, takes you on a date, or flies you out of state/country on a trip - sex is owed as a form of gratification or an unspoken payment from the woman in heterosexual relationships. Is this a mentality that a lot of men actually share or is this societal standards that's falsified and overhyped? Why do so many women complain about the pressure to have sex when a man pays for anything and why do so many men pressure women for sex or some type of sexual activity once they spend a little of money on a woman?
***Video used in discussion is located on the IG page for relevance: https://www.instagram.com/p/CHQdUBepXP3/
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