#81 - Helping Men on the Brink of Divorce | Geoffrey Setiawan

No relationship is perfect. There will come a time wherein couples go through a rough patch and it's normal. As they say, it's not always a walk-in-the-park experience. Oftentimes, these challenges are also necessary for a couple to make improvements and adjustments to save the relationship. However, failing to recognize the most obvious signs and the root of the problem may put the couple in a situation where they need to decide whether to break out of it or stay together. But regardless of the hardships, remember that if you and your partner are willing to work things out, you will be able to surpass whatever struggle comes your way.

In Episode 81, we invited a self-made man who helps men who are on the brink of divorce to salvage their marriage. Geoffrey Setiawan is a Youtuber who creates videos to pursue his passion that led to an actual online course for everyone. 

He’ll be sharing with us how he pivoted from data science to being someone who helps not just men but also women and how they can save their relationships and how they can learn to manage their emotions. He courageously stepped out of his comfort zone to pursue his passion and built his confidence to continue paving his path to help other people as well.

We’ll discuss further the following:

• Common reasons for Divorce [15:34]
• Pillars of the Relationship [18:10]
• The Identity Shifting [31:24]
• The Paradox of Change [39:29]
• Conflicts as a part of life [38:27]
• Different terminologies

If you are someone who is trying to change to save your relationship, this episode is just for you. Use the knowledge and be inspired on how you can rebuild a love better than ever. 

Join us, and together let us dive deeper to learn more and reflect on the lessons from this episode!

Connect with Geoffrey:

• Website
• Youtube

Shownotes

• The term “Stonewalling” [7:41]
• The fundamental attribution error [8:55]
• Why it’s good to have differences in a relationship [16:15]
• Anger and emotion management [20:03]
• Attachment styles [28:28]
• Two parts of self-esteem [29:06]
• Meditation as a tool [33:27]
• Successful vs failed couples [36:13]
• The program “Connection equals freedom” [42:07]

Click HERE for the show transcript.