In this episode - Gem is going to share with us her story - the struggles of growing up in a religious household where sex and sexual desires were considered shameful and the impact this had on her sexual experiences,
For Gem, she is stepping outside of her comfort zone in order to bring more education and empowerment to herself and listeners as we uncover Why she needs a sexual therapist and coach.
"I come from a very religious background, so any form of sexuality was disgusting shameful behaviour, a belief I have recently started investing energy into liberating myself from as to break the cycle in my own family.
I am also a very sexual person and over the years, I have found myself in situations that were uncomfortable, and I did not know how to handle it. I didn't know how to be truly me and set boundaries, so I shrunk myself - to feel safe and be accepted.
I’m still working on reconditioning these fears, so I can be the most authentic, powerful version of me and see my sexuality not as a perverted part of myself but a pure expression of me. Not knowing how to set boundaries and avoiding unwanted attention meant I squashed my light.
I have few friends where I can freely be my true self with – because I know they don't want to fuck me. But Ive had friends and friends partners (male and female) see my openness and natural sexual charisma as an invitation to my vagina.
So between my natural raw chemistry and my mum who grew up catholic then turned Christian and not really being someone I could talk to about how to keep myself safe, I retracted into myself.
These podcasts aren't just going to be for our listeners, I know I am going to get an education and a sense of freedom from these as well - and I can’t wait!
Gem' Insta :https://www.instagram.com/gem_the.spiritual.alchemist/
Jess' Insta: https://www.instagram.com/jesskugler_justknowyoucan/
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