Today we are going to be discussing the toxic cycle of attracting unavailable partners and what this means for us. We'll discuss how to identify when we are in this cycle, what the causes are behind it, and what we can do to change it.
We get addicted to the toxicity that emotionally unavailable people bring into our lives. Emotionally mature men are healed men, and that's simply not a turn-on when it's not feeding your anxieties and abandonment issues.
Emotionally unavailable people are safe because you can count on them to let you down, you just want to be loved, and winning the love of someone who is emotionally damaging you means you are capable of being loved.
But, because we don’t believe we are capable of being loved, and we receive love based on the love we have for ourselves, we attract people who match our lack of self-love vibration.
Really - we’re the emotionally unavailable ones because these people are our mirrors - reflecting back to us what emotional parts of ourselves we are avoiding through fear of losing our safety. They provide us with reasons to self-sabotage.
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