Replay: Favourite People (Who We Love and Leave)

This is a repeat of one of my more popular poems, replayed here with a hope of getting a new audience, who might have missed it!

 

We are what we are. But we are also all the people who have arrived, moved on, stayed in our lives. People whose very touch may feel like a hug or an abandonment , a benediction or a scare. People we’ve loved  and fought with, people we’ve been secretive about, those we’ve cried for, those who’ve cried because of us. Just as relationships change, we are changeable too.

 

We are what we are. But we are also the slipstream of our old loves, the undercurrent of those who hurt us, the flotsam of those we wronged. We are also the pressed flowers of compliments, kept long after the fragrance has gone; we are the lees of the good times which make us remember springs and mists; we are the dregs of the nights of short tempers and long knives.

 

There is so much that is extraordinary in mundane lives, that one wonders what is evanescent and what stays. Would the quiet moment in a sun drop count? Would a poem which made me cry stay? Would the fleeting memory of a summer love still overwhelm after years?

 

How does memory work? Is it a crucible or a sieve? Does it hold what it does to keep it shimmering and intact for an insignificant day? Or does it let everything percolate down into a cesspool of oblivion, just keeping back those morsels which then find place in our souls.

 

Every one of us then is an amalgam of the dullness and magic of every person we meet, every feeling we feel, every hurt we give, every bruise we carry. We are never merely the wind and the woods, the street and the home - we are also the stars, the black holes, the pulsars  - we are the whole universe.

 

If you liked this poem, consider listening to these other poems on resolving relationships  -

• I Never Wanted Parts of You Which Were Easy
• Capturing The Feeling 
• Stories Which Survive

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The details of the music used in this episode are as follows -

Music: Rising Sun by Sascha Ende
Free download: https://filmmusic.io/song/86-rising-sun
License (CC BY 4.0): https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
Artist website: https://www.sascha-ende.de