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The Messed Up Counsellor

The Messed Up Counsellor

Health & Fitness:Mental Health

Episode 8: Care or Control? (Which is it)

Episode 8: Care or Control? (Which is it)

2024-01-29
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We all overstep this process at times in our lives, and do things which we think will be helpful, only to find the person we are helping feels controlled. The only way to understand if you have gone from help to control is to ask the other person how they feel, and if they wanted you to do that for them.

 

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