Grace within us

I once spoke with a woman who had been through at least three major medical journeys.  She felt a constant pull between Grace and fear in her life.  She desperately need Grace to win the battle within her.  We look at one way that has been used to categorize Grace: Prevenient, Justifying, and Sanctifying Grace.  Our goal isn't to memorize any particular way to structure the overall notion of Grace.  We want to understand what Grace does within us and how it impacts our lives.