Navigating Valentine’s Day in a Neurodiverse Relationship – Expectations & Communication Tips

Valentine’s Day can bring excitement, pressure, or even confusion—especially in a neurodiverse relationship!

Whether you’re neurotypical, autistic, or have ADHD, understanding and communicating expectations for this day can make all the difference.

In this episode, I’ll walk you through:

✅ How neurodivergent and neurotypical partners may approach Valentine’s Day differently

✅ Common misunderstandings and emotional triggers

✅ Practical strategies for clear, pressure-free communication

✅ How to create a celebration (or skip it!) in a way that works for both of you

 

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👩‍💼 Hi, I'm #JodiCarlton !! I am a seasoned professional with 20+ years of experience as a therapist and relationship coach specializing in neurodiverse relationships.

I AM NEURODIVERGENT: I discovered as an adult that I am #ADHD, and I was married to an autistic man for 19 years. I also had other neurodiverse romantic relationships and have an autistic daughter and an ADHD son. Through the years, I have realized that my entire extended family is neurodivergent. My relationships with neurodiverse family and friends have been my personal training ground for understanding and helping partners and couples in their own relationships.

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