Valentine’s Day has just passed and most of us demonstrated our love for that special someone in our life by buying a gift, candy, flowers, or a special meal of some kind. This custom is so ingrained in our society that to fail to do something leads to being called a callous, worthless, uncaring, bum, by your recently past, not-so-special anymore, loved one in your life. There are those that see this as an actual test of their spouse’s love.
It is not enough that you say that you love them, for the word love is an often used word that can have various levels of intensity.
It is not enough that you believe that you love them, for how many times have you really believed that you loved someone, just to find out that it was more of a physical attraction, instead of real love?
There must be more, there must be a demonstration of that love, or your spouse will consider your love dead, or missing, or simply a mental assent to the concept of love, but it must not really reach down into your heart.
In other words, love without works is dead. You can tell your wife that you love her, and then she will probably look at you and tell you how nice that is, but that she shows you her love by her works.
Therefore, the test of your love for your spouse is your works.
It doesn’t mean that you do not love her if you do not have works. You can be married without works, but if you truly love your wife, or your husband, there will be works that are the natural result of that love. They will come from the emotional, heartfelt, desire, to do things for your spouse that will demonstrate your love for them. Those works will be the fruit of your love.
You will do things for your spouse all of the time, not just on Valentine’s Day, not just because you want to pass a test, or a judgment to come, but because to love someone in the manner that God has intended for a man and a women to love each other, means that what they want and need is much more important than your own wants and needs.
Now, if you can understand this concept, then you will be able to understand one of the most widely misinterpreted, and misunderstood, sections of the Bible as we study it today. Listen to this podcast and learn what the Book of James says about a test of your faith, and how a faith without works is dead.