Episode #23: How to Tame Your Man
- Changing Behavior - Adjusting Behavior
- Two ppl from two different worlds
- Never come at or attack your man for something he’s done. (Push - Push back)
- Adjusting behavior slowly but surely: HOW.
- Shaping behavior - Skinner
- Acknowledge Small wins (too many ppl only recognize the “wrongs”)
- Know it’s gonna take some time - Patience & Grace
- Frame question in a curiosity frame vs accusatory tone -
- Come from a place of love
- Softeners
- Because I care about our relationship
- “I need your help on something”
- I’m having a hard time with this…
- I’m concerned about...
Action Steps
1. Never attack your partner for something they've done.
2. Realize there will be challenges along the way
3. Changing behavior is a process.
4. Acknowledge "Winning" Behavior
5. Approach with Love
6. Use Curiosity Frames
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