I. UNDERSTAND THE POWER OF MY WORDS
II. COMMIT TO WISE FIGHTING WORDS
7 Rules for Wise Fighting
1. Always check my motives
2. Never attack the person; attack the issue
3. Never raise my voice
4. Never interrupt
5. Never keep score
6. Always follow the talk with action
7. Always speak from my heart
III. ALLOW GOD TO CLEANSE AND FILL MY SOUL
Scripture: James 3:2-8a, James 3:3-4 James 3:5-6, James 3:17-18, James 3:10-12, Matthew 7:24-25
Topics: Marriage, Conflict, REALationships