Some people think they need to forgive when what they really need to do is depart from that troublesome church person

Dr. Joan Boney, Jesus Ministries ...

If we put ourselves with church people who will not follow scripture, they will greatly vex us with their words and deeds.  You are constantly forgiving these persons.  

But according to scripture, what you should do is leave them alone and do not hear what they say when they will not follow the doctrines of Christ and they go another way.

II John

8 Look to yourselves, that we lose not those things which we have wrought, but that we receive a full reward.

 

9  Whosoever transgresseth, and abideth not in the doctrine of Christ, hath not God. He that abideth in the doctrine of Christ, he hath both the Father and the Son.

10  If there come any unto you, and bring not this doctrine, receive him not into your house, neither bid him God speed:

11 For he that biddeth him God speed is partaker of his evil deeds.

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