Dates, Mates and Babies with the Vallottons
Society & Culture:Relationships
In the second part of the "Foundations of Relational Health" series, Jason and Lauren begin by talking about the season of life in which Jason walked through a divorce and learned the importance of knowing and communicating your needs. Not knowing his needs contributed to the breakdown of his first marriage, so learning to locate and validate his own needs was part of his journey in getting well after his divorce. Every person has the same set of basic needs like food, water and shelter, but every person has a unique set of needs according to their personalities and norms. When that core set of needs goes unmet, people are in pain. But for an individual to feel known and loved, they need to be able to discover and communicate their needs, inviting the other person into those areas. We are a body, soul and spirit, and you cannot separate the three! Each part of our triune being has needs, and if those needs go unmet, we'll be in pain. A lot of this happens on a subconscious level, but growing in self-awareness helps us operate on a more conscious and intentional level. Jason and Lauren share stories of their dating and marriage journeys with regards to having needs, communicating needs and meeting needs in a healthy way.
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73. Connection: The Foundation of Relational Health, Part 1
72. Q&A
71. Five Keys to Help Moms Win!
70. The Emotional Bank Account of Your Relationship
69. Fostering Adult Friendships
68. Q&A About the Recent Sex Series
67. Sex Series, Week 6: Women's Health & Sex with Rebekah LaRobardiere
66. Sex Series Week 5: Sexual Issues & Dysfunctions with Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill
65. Sex Series Week 4: Sex in Marriage, Part 2 (Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill)
64. Sex Series Week 3: Sex in Marriage, Part 1 (Aaron & Jenna Zint)
63. Sex Series Week 2: Sex BEFORE Marriage
62. Sex Series Week 1: God's Design for Human Sexuality with Cole and Caitlin Zick
61. Jason and Lauren on Parenting, Lately
60. Q&A (Including dating issues to press through, dating with faith differences, friendship with kids, marriage separations, blindspots, etc.)
59. Should I Stay or Should I Go: 10 Reasons to End a Dating Relationship
58. What is Love?!
57. The Pre-Dating Game
56. Q&A (How to get over a heartbreak, when to get engaged, when to date after divorce, when to have a baby, and more!)
55. Gottman's Four Horsemen of Conflict
54. Seth Dahl on Cultivating a Thriving Family Through Spirit-Led Parenting
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